Monday, April 22, 2024
I know, I know.... LATE LATE LATE!
Wednesday, February 14, 2024
Celebrating love on Valentine's Day
Today my heart is filled with so many memories. 35 years ago yesterday, Bear and I met. I was 21, he was 27...
Sixteen years ago today, my dad died.
I think you know when you pass the mid-life mark - it's when you look back more than you look forward.
Such an odd day for me, this day of love. There are so many kinds of love to celebrate.
The love of my life - my husband.
The love of my family, and friends.
The love of animals - pets and wild ones.
The love of gardening and growing things.
The love of music, movies, and art.
The love of vintage things.
The love of good food and cooking.
The love of those who have gone, which continues to keep their memories alive.
Happy Valentine's Day, blogfriends!
Monday, January 29, 2024
Marcheline Remembers: C. J. Edwards
For more years than I can remember, I've been "pen friends" with C. J. Edwards. I met him through his blog, and we began a long and wonderful friendship. A few days ago, I found out through his brother, my dear friend G. B. Edwards, of the Eagleton Notes blog, that C.J. had passed away.
I will always be grateful that back in 2016, I was fortunate enough to travel with my husband and my mom to Scotland, and C.J. and his wife, Jo, drove up to meet us for a couple of days in Dunblane.
Thursday, January 04, 2024
2024: THE THEME
The happy result was that we managed to reach several big goals, paying off debts, and taking a lot of unnecessary pressure off of our household (Bear was side by side with me on the theme and goal, too).
Being that the idea was such a success, I have been pondering what this year's theme should be, and I've landed on this:
This is not just a random idea. It actually sprang from the recent completion of the DIY bathroom renovation. I got sick of our crappy bathroom, and finally decided to stop moaning about it and Get On With It. Since it's been done, we have really enjoyed the room, and kept it nice, and the renovations have made us very happy about having done it. So I thought - why not continue the trend?
As I look around our cluttered cottage, my eyes fall not on things that I dislike, or things that have no purpose, but rather things that were started and not finished. Projects that got half attempted and then life got in the way (lame excuse, eh).
So this year, I am going to dial in my focus on finishing those things I've started, so that I can clear away the detritus and get the cottage back to a living space, rather than a maze of clutter.
In my experience, one project completion inspires the next one. Getting up and doing the dishes makes me more likely to dust and vacuum. Getting one project finished gives me energy to attack the next one. Impetus.
I am going to retain the lessons I learned from "The Year of Less" and keep leaning into that way of life - I'm not just ditching all the good it did, in other words... I'm including this new theme as an overlying focus. It's like trying to build a strong house, one brick at a time.
WELCOME TO 2024:
THE YEAR OF
GETTING ON WITH IT
Sunday, December 31, 2023
HAPPY NEW YEAR 2024!
Happy New Year, blogpeeps! It's said that you should treat others as you wish to be treated.... so I will wish for you what I wish for myself:
Peace, quiet, comfort, contentment, good books, great movies, delicious food, your favorite person, cozy robes, tasty cocktails, cuddly pets, and good health.
Not in that order, of course. (It would seem rude to put the cocktails at the beginning....)
Sunday, December 24, 2023
Merry Christmas Eve!
It's Jasper's first Yule tree... and he is being SO good! He patty-pawed a few ornaments, but all in all he is respecting the rather amazing addition to our small living room...
... this year's tree is named Ronan (after one of the centaurs in Harry Potter)...
Hope all of you are having a good holiday season, that you are warm and well fed, that you are listening to your favorite music, and have good books to read, and have peace and whatever makes your heart smile!
Saturday, December 16, 2023
Happy Birthday to Beethoven... and Me!
Well, I've made it another trip around the sun. I am grateful for this life, for the love that I was given as a child, and which I continue to encounter as I mature. I'm grateful for the wonderful surprises that come at odd moments, be it a beautiful bird or a jewel-toned spider in the garden. I'm grateful that I've been strong enough to weather the storms that come to us all.
I'm grateful to have the best husband in the world, and the home we've built together, the animals who share our lives, and the friends and family far and near that make my life more rich and touch my heart.
I continue to be puzzled and stressed by the way the world is now, it is such an unfamiliar place - so different from the way things used to be when I felt that I knew was going on, but I try to keep hope alive that the greedy and heartless will not vanquish those who value love and art and history and kindness. Sometimes it looks pretty bleak, but I continue to find pockets of hope, small corners where people are still real.
I look forward to the coming year. New projects. New discoveries. New adventures. And I'm glad you're coming with me!
Monday, December 11, 2023
Jasper's first Christmas!
Started out here...
,,, ended up here!
Of course we let him play in the tree while it was new and as yet undecorated. We wanted him to enjoy it and have fun with it and explore. The other cats ignored the tree as if it wasn't there, which he will do once he's had his fill of "this is new!"
Because of work schedules, we won't be decorating for a few days yet, so hopefully by the time we do everything will be normalized. That is a word almost never said around here - HA!
Wednesday, November 15, 2023
Better Late Than Never... Our carved pumpkins!
Bear went for a "Jack Skellington" ("Nightmare Before Christmas") themed pumkin this year...
Given the oblong shape of my pumpkin, I decided to go with a scene rather than a head... this is the Lady in Black wandering the halls of a haunted castle.
Tuesday, October 31, 2023
BREAKING NEWS: Marcheline Scores the Last Two Pumpkins on Long Island
Yes, folks, once again I managed to arrive at Samhain (Hallowe'en to you non-pagans) completely unprepared.
In years gone by, I would have cleaned the house and decked it out in all kinds of autumnal decorations. Lately, I'm lucky if I can get both socks to match. Seriously, late onset Hallowe'en prep fail is REAL. How did I get here?
I jumped in Squat Betty and went roaring around to all the grocery stores (no pumpkins) and all the farm stands (closed) that I could find... and finally, in a last desperate attempt, I went to our local flower nursery - (open, and pumpkins) SUCCESS!!!! Granted, they are not the bright orange, upright pumpkins we are used to from years gone by:
And yet I still feel these pumpkins have the kind of spirit we needed for the day. Yeah, they're squat and flattish, and pale, but I'm hoping that once we delve into their depths, we will find a plethora of juicy pumpkin seeds to be toasted, salted, and eaten while watching our Hallowe'en movies tonight!
In other news, when I'd returned home with my treasures, I parked Squat Betty in the driveway and shortly thereafter, this happened:
Meet Buster (L) and Gracie (R), two of our outdoor brood that we feed and care for. They are brother and sister, and they know not to waste some good still-warm engine vibes on a chilly autumn day!
Thursday, September 07, 2023
Marcheline Renovates: Part Quatre
Since this is a renovation post, I know you were expecting photos of crumbled plaster, holes in walls, and other such shenanigans.
If you insist:
Tuesday, August 29, 2023
Marcheline Visits The Twilight Zone...
Taking a short break from posting about The Bathroom Renovation (not, however, taking any breaks from actually working on the renovation... every spare minute for the last month!), although that saga will resume very soon, as I have much to say on that score.
Anyway.
Bear and I have a semi-regular ritual during which, if we are lucky enough to both have time off on a Sunday morning, we listen to "Sunday Baroque" on NPR. It's three hours of solid baroque music, which both of us particularly enjoy.
If we're lucky enough to have mild weather, we will take the pretty little turquoise portable radio out on the patio and listen to the program al fresco, while drinking coffee and discussing life.
A few weeks back, we were doing just that. At some point, we decided to go inside for a while. We grabbed our coffee and breakfast dishes and headed in, but we left the little portable radio tweeting away on the patio table.
Once inside, we found other things to do, and since the baroque program was still on, we turned on the inside radio to listen to the rest of it.
At one o'clock, the baroque music program ends, and a horrifically awful radio game show comes on. The very moment that we hear the theme music start for the game show, whoever is closest to the radio dives for the "off button" and punches it, thus delivering us from having to hear any of the smug and smarmy commentary and boring attempts at humor that always abound on that particular show.
One o'clock had come and gone, the radio was turned off, and I settled on the couch to read. Bear said he would go outside and grab the little radio off the patio table so we wouldn't forget it and let it get rained on or ruined. Out he went.
A few minutes later, I heard the door open, and Bear walked in with a bemused look on his face. I looked up from my book and asked what was up, and he said nothing - just held up the little turquoise radio.
Baroque music was tinkling from the tiny speakers.
It was at least fifteen minutes after one, and we had turned off the indoor radio the moment the game show came on. The NPR station by us is way up on the very tail end of the right side of the dial. There are no other classical radio stations anywhere near NPR. The little turquoise radio had been tuned to NPR when we left it on the patio, and all Bear did was pick it up by the handle and bring it indoors.
We looked at each other, listening to the baroque music play for maybe thirty seconds, and then suddenly the station cut off completely. No sounds whatsoever. Bear twiddled the dial, trying to find it again, and almost immediately found NPR and the stupid game show.
Where had that baroque music come from?
I think I know.
Friday, August 18, 2023
Marcheline Renovates: Part Trois
I fully admit to stealing (okay, borrowing) this tee shirt from my husband, but I felt that considering the amount of work I am doing on the bathroom renovation lately, it pretty much sums up my feelings on the matter.
Today I finished the ceiling!
Tuesday, August 15, 2023
Marcheline Renovates: Part Deux
Just so we understand each other, this bathroom renovation thing has exactly nothing to do with the size of the bathroom (in that case, it would have been done in five minutes). It has everything to do with how much time and energy I have to spend on each layer of the onion skin...
I do have some celebrating to do, however - I discovered a wonderful wall covering that actually STAYS ON THE WALL. And it looks like wood planks! But is washable and will not attract termites nor swell up and warp!
This is vinyl peel-and-stick planking... but let me tell you, the "stick" in this peel-and-stick is serious stuff. I found that out when I applied the first one and then thought I really needed to move it a few centimeters to the left. When I pulled on it, it literally took out chunks of wall - yikes!
Methought I should immediately figure out a way of putting up those planks so that I would not have to move them at all once the sticky stuff was stuck. Turns out the trick was to take the very edges of the strips you pull off, and make them stick out the sides of the plank. Then put the plank exactly where you want it, and hold it down with one arm while with your other hand you pull the strips. Yeah, a bit fiddly, especially with the ones way up near the ceiling, which had to be done while balancing on a step ladder...but the effect is SO pretty!
See for yourself:
The ceiling bit still needs doing, but I ran out of planks and had to order more. I have them now, and will be doing the ceiling this weekend, good Lord willing and the creeks don't rise...
Also on the "hooray" list are the light fixture and the medicine cabinet revamping!
Here's the light fixture (looks like a lighthouse lamp to me):
And here's the old medicine cabinet with a new coastal-framed mirror glued on the front with about two pounds of contractor's epoxy:
We've got in bits and bobs, like outlet and light switch covers, all in the bronze finish that will match the new faucet fixture, and the next big part of the project will involve assembly of the cabinet I chose to make a vanity out of. Then I'll cut holes in the top of same to put the sink and the faucet, and connect the faucet to the hot and cold water, etc.
Sounds simple, eh? Stay tuned... and wish me luck!
Tuesday, August 08, 2023
Hi. My name is Marcheline (only not really). I am a DIY bathroom renovator.
All together now: "Hi, Marcheline....".
Yeah. So.
Aeons ago, had our teensy, tiny, weenie little horror show of a bathroom estimated by professionals for a makeover.
Ten thousand bucks. Which, in my vocabulary, equals "Ah, HELL NO."
So, years went by, and the bathroom got uglier, and smaller (or I got bigger, but let's not go there, shall we?).
Now I've reached the point where I have just had it up to here. I decided I no longer want to live with a craptastic, ugly bathroom.
The beginning of these decisions is always the fun part. Shopping, deciding, making fashion choices, planning out the look... then comes the running and screaming.
For example, I decided that since our bedroom makeover went so well, with our seaside coastal theme that I think we really pulled off well, it would be cool to have the bathroom also be coastal-ish. More industrial/coastal, with oil-rubbed bronze metal bits.
I found this really great-looking peel-and-stick wallpaper in a whitewashed wooden board pattern. I was inclined not to get peel-and-stick for a bathroom, because of shower steam and etc., but the Tempaper website assured me that this wallpaper was specifically designed to be used in bathrooms, and would withstand shower steam with no problem. Consumer reviews abounded which sang the praises of this wallpaper.
Cue my days off: I got up, put on my work clothes, and spent NINE HOURS installing this wallpaper.
This is a photo taken in the middle of the day, just so you can see the look I was going for. I was so happy with the board-look!
Bear came home from work and helped me install the hardest parts, up near the ceiling, and then we went downstairs to have dinner. That was at 7PM.
Just about an hour later, Bear went upstairs. I heard his voice saying "Oh, you're not going to be happy about this."
I ran upstairs, and there, in the bathroom, was ALL of the wallpaper, hanging down in streamers, peeled off the ceiling and walls, balled up and stuck to itself in the middle of the bathroom.
NINE HOURS of work, y'all.
I tore the remaining few inches that were still stuck to the bottom of the walls, balled the whole thing up and put it in a garbage bag.
Then I cried.
So yeah, DIY home renovation. It's going so well!
In other news, I just got the new wall covering (not wallpaper) and I'm going to be installing that on my next days off.
The bathroom vanity, the sink, the faucet, and all that other good stuff are currently cluttering up the rest of the house, waiting to be installed.
In the meantime, I am trying to get a refund for my wasted wallpaper from the Tempaper company. They are much slower at refunding my money than their wallpaper was falling off my walls.
Stay tuned for more "Marcheline Renovates"!
Thursday, July 06, 2023
GUESS WHAT'S ON TURNER CLASSIC MOVIES THIS COMING SATURDAY NIGHT?!?!?!?
I nearly yelled out loud when I saw this - in all my years of watching Turner Classic Movies (and in all my years of loving the film "Withnail & I") I have never, EVER seen them air it on this channel! (Except for the very first time I ever saw it.)
I wonder why they decided to do so, all of a sudden. Was it because Anthony Bourdain listed it as his top favorite movie of all time (which is why I watched it the very first time)? Was it because the great Robert Osborne (RIP) was hosting the show the day that Anthony Bourdain guested and mentioned the film?
Or was it because I sent in a video of me doing an intro for this film during a competition on TCM (that, sadly, I did not win)?
Other questions arise - I don't think I've ever seen a film on TCM that had "blue language"... but if they bleep out every swear word in this film, it will just be two hours of "bleep bleep bleep" - like having a conversation with R2D2!
In any case, I am thrilled - and of course I am going to DVR it on the channel, so I can see it whenever I am able, and can see what they've done to it, if anything. They did put an "R" rating on the channel listing, so perhaps they're just going to let it fly.
So excited!!
Friday, June 16, 2023
Marcheline Presents: The Meditation Garden
For about a year now, I have been scheming and planning and plotting and dreaming and thinking of a way to reclaim the back corner of the gardens (the one ruined by the crazy twatwaffle neighbor who kept taking down our fence).
When we first moved here, that "room" in the garden was always called "the Chess Garden" because we had the idea we'd sit back there and play chess. There was a round marble chess board in the center of the lawn, with the idea that we would sit on the ground with blankets, picnic-style, and play chess. It was a good idea, but it just never happened.
Then I got the idea to transform it into a Meditation Garden, with comfortable seating. It took a while to obtain the necessary items, but finally it has all come together, and here it is!
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